You Have Seen Her Before Here She Is Again

03-21-2008, 12:54 PM	#i
bazhan Newbie (male) Bring together Date: Mar 2008 Location: leeds uk Posts: i	i miss my wife and then much will i meet her again when i die i miss my wife then much will i see her again when i dice. my wife lost her battle with cancer ane month ago in wakefield hospice she just went in for pain relief but she got worse and died i was with her on the 21/2/2008 i know i will ever get over this as i loved her so much we was together thirty yrs we were only 16 when we see and it was love at offset sight all i desire at this time is to go to her but the only problem is what people say that if you commit suicide i will not go to her equally i right this letter i can smell her in the room with me i know what i want to do and i know i will do it as when my wife dyed all my fear about death went and im not afraid of dying no more im relay looking frontward to it it will audio airheaded to a lot but its what i want as every time i close my eyes i see her every fourth dimension i go out i see her i wake up at night crying every bit i desire to be with her then much . i would similar to say a very big cheers to the hospice for all the loving intendance they give to my wife give thanks you all barry

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03-21-2008, 10:38 PM	#2
Karen W. Veteran (female) Bring together Date: April 2005 Posts: 391	Re: i miss my wife so much will i see her again when i die Howdy, I'm so very sad for your lose, correct now it's all so very new, your yet in daze, it'due south really hard to funtion. I was very close to my dad and when he died, I was a mess, I had a knot in my stomach for three months, I cried daily, I did not sleep well and the littlest affair that reminded me of him brought tears. But and so there is a side I did find comfort in and that was he is upward in heaven and he is not sick anymore, he is not suffering anymore, that also applies to your wife, she is upward in sky and she is not sick and suffering from cancer anymore. Practice you have any children? If and then, they demand yous, they need in that location Dad more than you lot know, I recall y'all need to talk to a minter or councler, reach out to them, they can help you. Karen

03-22-2008, 03:30 PM	#3
LostN07 Member (female) Join Appointment: Feb 2008 Location: us Posts: 54	Re: i miss my married woman so much will i see her again when i die Well no one knows for sure until we die. but is death worth the chance of Non being with her? And living in sheer torture forever? Its far worse than living without her death I tin can assure you. I know how you feel I burried my little boy concluding summer. There are moments im ready to die and mornings I dont want to wake upward. This is normal grieving. Yous demand to talk to someone a prefessional. They might brand you feel better. Please know your not alone and God has his reasons though we may not understand them.

03-31-2008, 01:06 PM	#4
MissB999 Junior Member (female) Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Hull, East Yorkshire, Uk Posts: 15	Re: i miss my wife so much will i see her over again when i dice How-do-you-do Barry I saw your post and it touched me greatly. I am so very pitiful for your loss and the pain yous feel. We lost my Grandfather in November last twelvemonth and Im seeing my Nan and Mum miss him terribly. All I can say is that your family unit need you and that Im sure your wife is watching over you and hoping you lot will be strong. Rachel ten

04-01-2008, 10:38 PM	#v
NewYawk Junior Member (female) Join Date: October 2006 Location: NY Posts: 18	Re: i miss my wife so much will i run across her again when i die I am sorry for your loss. It is believed that when we dice, It will just seem similar we left our loved one that died before united states, just a finger snap agone. Like we never left them. In that location is no sense of time in the afterlife, like nosotros have when we are alive. Fifty-fifty if our loved one died young, and we abound old to exist lxxx and then die, it volition be like we never left them.....so it's said. But we won't know until nosotros die ourselves. Final edited by NewYawk; 04-02-2008 at 08:00 AM.

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04-11-2008, 09:55 PM	#6
jacobbis4lovers Newbie (male person) Bring together Date: Apr 2008 Location: allen, texas, u.s. Posts: 3	Re: i miss my wife so much will i come across her once again when i die You lot will run across her again when you lot dice. I promise you that. I'thou pretty sure that there'southward an afterlife. I don't believe that atheists are right. At that place has to be an afterlife otherwise this life is meaningless. Your wife is watching over you and waiting for you to meet her in sky. Just trust god that he's taking skillful care of her right now, and will take care of y'all. Death is something that we don't want to go through, but we have to. One day we will all be dead and gone, but our spirits volition live on for eternity. Your wife is in a better place now and just recollect that this life goes by with a glimmer of an eye, but the spiritual world goes past forever. It never ends. Y'all and your wife will encounter in heaven and be married forever. How good does that sound? It sounds pretty amazing to me. Anyway, only be stiff and never lose your faith in god. We won't know the existent answer until we die, just I doubt we just rot in the ground. There's then much experiences that show there'south an afterlife. I can logically prove NDE'S are real: The brain isn't functioning. It'southward not there. It's destroyed. It's aberrant. Only, yet, it can produce these very articulate experiences ... an unconscious state is when the brain ceases to function. For example, if yous faint, you lot fall to the floor, you don't know what's happening and the brain isn't working. The memory systems are particularly sensitive to unconsciousness. And then, you won't remember anything. But, yet, after one of these experiences [a NDE], you come out with clear, lucid memories ... This is a real puzzle for scientific discipline. I have non yet seen any good scientific explanation which tin can explain that fact. Our hearts are heavy and calorie-free. god anoint.

04-12-2008, 01:26 PM	#7
SweetThing789 Senior Fellow member (female) Bring together Date: Dec 2006 Location: United states Posts: 110	Re: i miss my married woman then much will i see her again when i dice Hi there...what you are feeling is a normal part of the grieving process...I have never lost a spouse to expiry (just divorce) which I sometimes think may be harder because in divorce the person chooses to leave united states, in decease they have no option. I did however, lose my firstborn son to a tragic car accident when he was 16 years old..the pain and loss will e'er be with y'all, just I Promise it does fade with time.....please practice not do anything rash out of your grief, your married woman would not want that....you will recover, possibly beloved again..so please hang in there...my thoughts and prayers are with you.....ST

04-12-2008, 04:50 PM	#8
PSusanp123 Junior Member (female person) Bring together Appointment: Sep 2007 Location: IN USA Posts: 49	Re: i miss my wife and so much will i run into her again when i die I'm very sorry for your loss and can totally relate to your feelings and thoughts of committing suicide to be with your loved one. Yes, the idea that information technology might exist an unforgivable sin and that I would non be with my Ben, took those thoughts away from my caput. Y'all must non even remember about this every bit an culling! Your wife does live on, in some other place, that anytime, at the right time, you will be also. I have cried many tears and asked for signs that my Ben lived on. I received them, and am certain he is in another place and that at the right time, I will be with him again. You need to contact a grief support group,(hospice tin can put you in contact with 1, as they did me) and also reading books by John Edwards, James Prague almost life after decease helped me. The side by side year volition exist very hard for you, just believe me please, information technology will get better. I had cried and cried, screamed that I wanted him back, simply that can never be in this life. After 3 years have passed, yep, I still honey and miss Ben, just my life has gone on, and I am happy again. I will ever miss what I had, only I feel fortunate to have had him in my life and need to live on, every bit he would take wanted. Your wife too wants you to live on, for the 2 of you. She is with you every moment, please believe this. Achieve out and get support and know that the hurt volition lessen as time goes on.

04-17-2008, 07:fifteen AM	#9
Jenny42 Junior Member (female) Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: NSW, Aust Posts: 18	Re: i miss my wife and so much will i run across her again when i die hello barry.i lost my husband last october the day after his altogether and i also have had thoughts of suicide. i recollect i would take gone mad if information technology wasnt for my family ,he had his 68th birthday .he had cancer .i agreed to councelling and i found it helped.i miss him so bad that i observe myself talking to him all the time ,i say goodnight to him every night .im not agape of death anymore because i know he will be there to meet me when my time comes.i know in that location is an afterlife and we will all run into up once more when the time is right.we were married for 46 years.i idea i was going to exist ok when he went but you are never prepared for it.it is going to take time to get through it but they say information technology will happen.im sure you lot volition come across her again just every bit i will see my husband again .just proceed believing .i wish you lot all the best. love jenny.

04-17-2008, 10:48 PM	#10
irena Junior Member (female) Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 43	Re: i miss my wife so much volition i encounter her again when i dice Quote: Originally Posted past bazhan i miss my wife so much volition i see her again when i die. my wife lost her battle with cancer one month ago in wakefield hospice she simply went in for pain relief but she got worse and died i was with her on the 21/2/2008 i know i will ever get over this equally i loved her then much nosotros was together xxx yrs nosotros were only xvi when we meet and it was love at commencement sight all i want at this fourth dimension is to become to her simply the but problem is what people say that if you commit suicide i will not go to her as i right this letter i can olfactory property her in the room with me i know what i desire to do and i know i will do information technology as when my wife dyed all my fear about death went and im not afraid of dying no more im relay looking forward to it it volition sound airheaded to a lot but its what i want as every time i close my eyes i see her every time i get out i encounter her i wake upward at night crying as i want to exist with her so much . i would like to say a very big give thanks yous to the hospice for all the loving care they give to my wife thank yous all barry

04-17-2008, xi:xv PM	#11
irena Junior Member (female person) Bring together Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 43	Re: i miss my wife then much will i encounter her again when i dice Barry my heart goes out to you with the loss of your wife.I was so surprised to meet some ane from Wakefield, a identify I know well, and being half-dozen thousand miles away, I send you my heartfelt sympathy. Your loss is such a brusk time ago, and it will become better with time, even though at present y'all cant see life without her, she wouldn't wish for you lot to suffer, and accept your life. One day you will be together again, till and so share the grief with your family unit and friends, they demand, and will help you lot too. God Anoint, and take intendance. Ir-ena.

06-fourteen-2008, 11:09 AM	#12
SouthernTemptress Senior Fellow member (female) Join Engagement: Jul 2003 Posts: 111	Re: i miss my wife so much will i see her again when i die I am then sorry for your loss> I cannot imagine the difficulty you are experiencing with all this pain. I really wish nosotros had the choice of non dying lone as it seems some people have such a bond, they are meant to leave at the same fourth dimension. You both audio similar you loved eachother so much.. with that much positive free energy bonding you lot two, who knows what may or may not be possible.

04-24-2009, 02:01 AM	#13
MisterKitty Newbie (male) Bring together Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1	Re: i miss my married woman so much will i see her again when i dice Are you however at that place? I experience the same. Please let me know!!

04-24-2009, 06:32 AM	#14
caringsister54 Senior Veteran (female) Bring together Date: Oct 2008 Location: NJ, U.s. Posts: 1,471	Re: i miss my wife so much will i see her again when i die Barry and everyone I had a close relationship with my Dad who I lost in 1995. After awhile he appeared to me one night and I've had numerous "visits" ever since but since I also lost my married man 4 years agone, they've been less frequent. Here are the answers Dad gave me about what is his life in heaven like 1) Beginning when you die and arrive in sky, you are greeted by others you know who pre-deceased y'all. You are and so taken to an orientation surface area 2) If you arrived in heaven disabled in anyway -- you find you are immediately whole. If you were blind, you now have sight. If you were deaf you at present can hear. If you had a limb loss, you accept all of them back 3) God'south angels then ask on his behalf -- what was the age in life you lot were the virtually happiest? when you answer, y'all are forever that age 4) God so assigns you children being born at that moment as their guardian angel so you can never be the guardian angel of your family on earth but you lot can tell their guardian angel things that will aid them aid the person they oversee five) God allows them to visit on earth occasionally but their visits are cursory as there are no real fourth dimension, seasons, etc in heaven. Everyday is a glorious day filled with beauty, music, arts, etc. 6) In heaven the nearly important thing is yous are no longer part of a single family unit dynamic. You live in harmony with everyone else. While you have an internal stronger feeling when dealing with i person over some other in heaven, its non the family 'commitment' feelings and so at that place's no conflicts over ane side of a person's family unit versus another. Anybody just lives together in peace -- in that location's no coupling or anything. God just has everyone together. That'southward what Daddy shared with me. Believe it or non. I also read a good book its called "xc minutes in sky by Don Porter" and it and so helped me during my grieving time about my Mikey. He died at 48 very suddenly of heart failure in forepart of me. I miss all that I loss in my life. But while the normal grieving process does have periods where nosotros'd all love to join our loved ones simply to make our own middle-anguish finish or lessen, information technology does pass. Its been 4 years for me -- First I prayed that God would transport me someone again then I tin can one time once more have a purpose on earth. then when he didn't answer that prayer, I changed it to God, just help me go through the side by side day, hr, minute. Aid me cry less, enjoy my Mikey memories more, and help me learn have to be fulfilled and helpful for the balance of my life. But well-nigh of all, heal me so I can alive the remainings days alone and notwithstanding find happiness. a few weeks subsequently, I got an invite for java from someone within an internet dating site. I met the man, realized I knew him from somewhere -- turned out he use to work for my company many years agone and we'd pass in the hall & cafeteria merely never spoke. Nosotros started dating -- been together almost two years now. I love him and he apparently loves me only I also realize that the love I have with my new friend is nothing compared to the breath-taking love I had for my Mikey. its love only just different and maybe its considering of the historic period I am now compared to the age I was when my Mikey came along. I'thousand merely trying to comfort you and others to know that in that location is life subsequently death and that's what the message has been through the ages. Hang in at that place, write often -- I write letters to Mikey all the time, reading them once more lets me know how far I've come up in my grieving process. Honey CaringSister54

05-02-2009, 06:46 PM	#15
misE08 Member (female) Join Engagement: Jun 2008 Location: W Virginia Posts: 66	Re: i miss my wife so much will i see her again when i die I too agree...the xc minutes in heaven volume really helped me to empathise the "process" and feelings of heaven and merely what my daddy was experiencing and it made me experience better. I am sorry you experience so lost, if it does become ameliorate it takes fourth dimension...it has been 10 mos. for my loss of daddy and I nevertheless have hard times everyday, but some days are better. I know patience is difficult and times seem as though we dont think nosotros can brand information technology thru the next day, only with the Grace of God, the memories nosotros have, and knowing they would not want us pitiful really keeps me going....plus, I tin't stop living because my daddy isnt here. I have a son, a husband and a mom to take intendance of and that is what we must alive for. If you trust in the Lord every bit your personal saviour, y'all will encounter your wife once again i solar day, WHEN its your turn for God to call yous home. God Bless you lot. I will pray for your comfort. Missy

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